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Fort Hood Massacre - Here we go again

Posted At : November 14, 2009 11:59 AM | Posted By : Dr. Chuck Betters
Related Categories: Grief

Gripping Thoughts with Dr. Chuck Betters

Here we go again - political correctness at its worst. I have a sister-in-law, whose husband is in harm's way in Iraq and Afghanistan while his family holds their collective breath at Fort Hood and in other parts of the Coming Home From War country. He is there for the third or fourth tour, I cannot remember which. He loves the Lord as does his entire family and has served his country well rising through the ranks from West Point's student brigade commander to a full Colonel in the United States Army. His wife and children wait to hear from him every day. The last thing they want to see is an army car pull up to their front door, so to speak. My sister-in-law has often ministered to families devastated by losses suffered in combat.

The last thing anyone at Fort Hood expected was for the security and camaraderie of that base to be shattered by the ring of gun-fire as thirteen of their soldiers were brutally executed and thirty others were wounded. When the news came back that the terrorist was an Army Major who lived among them for years, no one could believe it. It didn't take but two minutes after this discovery for the political left in this country to rise up and begin to look for excuses for this killer's actions. They have no clue as to the harm this causes the families who lost a loved one in this murderous deed. It is like throwing salt on a large open wound. What is even more difficult to comprehend is the fact that the FBI and the Army KNEW about this man's terrorist leanings for some time. They knew about the radical mosque he attended. They knew he was a weirdo and a potential threat. Yet, nothing was done about this for fear of insulting the Muslims. This has got to stop. America must rise up and call this what it is - terrorism in the name of a non-peaceful religion.

President Obama made a good speech at the memorial service. But I could not help but notice how quick he was to defend Islam as a peace loving religion. The liberal media boasted on how some of the Muslim clerics were quick to condemn the act and disavow themselves from this killer. But for me, this is too little too late. Is Islam a religion of peace? Hardly! Take some time to read for yourself some of the excellent material that is out there in cyberspace. Simply Google "Is Islam a religion of peace."One example that provides food for thought can be found at http://www.studytoanswer.net/myths_ch7.html.

Where were the condemnations after 9-11 from the Islamic community? Where were the condemnations from the leading clerics around the world after this tragedy? With few exceptions, the Muslim community has been silent. This man, whose name I refuse to mention, was a terrorist and some of our key people in Homeland Security knew it. But, to be PC was more important than the lives of these soldiers and the devastating wave of pain that now is the lot of their families.

In His Grip,
Dr. Chuck Betters



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The Ugly Enemy

Posted At : August 1, 2009 3:52 PM | Posted By : Dr. Chuck Betters
Related Categories: Grief

Dr. Chuck Betters


Dr. Betters & Pastor Dan share from their hearts as they lead their home church through one of life's most difficult times - the loss of an 11-year old Covenant child in a boating accident. When the Betters lost their son Mark at only 16 years old they could not have known then that God was preparing them to hold up others who would one day walk the same dark path. These sermons offer a glimpse of hope and the opportunity to see light in an otherwise dark situation.

Click here to access Dr. Betters' The Ugly Enemy sermon.

Click here to access Pastor Dan's The Furnace of Affliction sermon.

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Leaning Into the Pain of Christmas Grief

Posted At : December 25, 2008 5:00 AM | Posted By : Dr. Chuck Betters
Related Categories: Grief,Christmas

Gripping Thoughts with Dr. Chuck Betters

Well, here we are. Christmas Day. If you are in deep grief, this moment confronts you with a hard choice, a choice that you must make within the context of your own circumstances. Perhaps you've already decided to avoid

all cultural reminders of Christmas and curl up at home by yourself or with a few special friends and immediate family. If you are fresh in your grief, that might be the right decision for you in your unique circumstances. Maybe you are looking forward to attending a Christmas Day church service, fully expecting the soft lights, Christmas songs and Christmas ambiance to magnify your pain but hoping that the celebration of Christ's birth will somehow satisfy the longings in your heart.

For wisdom in making daily choices in this foreign land of grief, we eavesdrop on an ancient conversation. It's in this verbal exchange that God gives the mother of all gifts to Abraham and everyone in Abraham's family (which includes you if you are a child of God). To begin to understand the deep emotion of this moment, reach back into your own treasure chest of memories and recollect the delight and joy you experienced when you gave your loved one a priceless gift. That's how we imagine God felt when Abraham began unwrapping this precious gift placed in his hands by the very heart of God. Abraham was not seeking God and we think he was a moon worshipper. In this unique conversation (Genesis 12:1-3) God says (my translation), "Abraham, you're my child now. I chose you. From this moment on, I am binding you to me, I will walk with you. As we walk through life together, I will teach you what it means to be my child. When you are faced with difficult choices and painful circumstances, remember this. I am with you always. I will bless you. You in turn will be a blessing to others. Through you I am creating a community, a family with more people than you can count. You will be a blessing to others and this covenant community will be a blessing to many because of my Presence."

In Genesis 15:1 God continues this conversation with the words: "Do not be afraid, Abram, I am your shield, your very great reward." In response to Abram's fear, God promises His Presence which is the greatest protection and reward of all.

So what does this have to do with my life choices? Or what to do on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day? Sharon often said that when Mark went to heaven, he took her mind with him. She couldn't think straight and to this day admits she has trouble making quick decisions. But God did not leave either of us without a grid through which to push life decisions. In Galatians Paul declares, "If you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham's seed, and heirs according to the promise."

Our decisions start with this truth: I belong to Christ. That makes me Abraham's seed which means I am part of the fulfillment of God's promise to build a huge family from the seed of Abraham. Therefore, the same promises He made to Abraham are part of my eternal inheritance. Every promise God made to Abraham belongs to me and to you if you know Jesus as your Savior. What are those promises? God promises me His Presence, that He will bless me, that I am part of a covenant community (spiritual family). It's in that family that I will experience blessings and learn how to be a blessing. Because of these promises, we look forward to being with our church family on Christmas Eve and family on Christmas Day. We know that being with them will nourish our souls and encourage us to believe that God is sovereign and we can trust Him. It's because of God's promise to make me a blessing to others that we choose to celebrate Christmas with loved ones rather than isolate ourselves in sorrow. These choices are sometimes difficult when our spirits are overcome by longing for Mark, but choosing to walk by faith in these moments often soothes our souls and supernaturally restores our hearts.

Stop for a moment and let this truth sink in. In the middle of your deep grief, daughter or son of the King, when you are so afraid of the future that you can barely breathe, so terrified of another phone call or knock on the door that could change your life forever, listen to the words God speaks to you through the promises to Abraham. Trace this promise throughout scripture:

Abram, Do not be afraid, I will be with you.
Isaac, do not be afraid, I will be with you.
Jacob, do not be afraid, I will be with you.
Joshua, do not be afraid, I will be with you.
Gideon, do not be afraid, I will be with you.
Jeremiah, do not be afraid, I will be with you.
Paul, do not be afraid, I will be with you.
And Jesus to His disciples as He descended into heaven,
Do not be afraid, I will be with you.

Each one of these individuals had genuine reason to be
afraid. God's call on their lives required them to do very hard tasks, to suffer deep pain, to walk by faith when all they could see was darkness. God's antidote to their fear was not to explain the why or how or even the solution to their challenge. He didn't tell them not to worry, everything would work out ok. No. God's response to their fear was the promise of His Presence. His method of comforting our broken hearts is the same. He doesn't tell us why our loved ones are gone. What answer would be good enough? Instead, He calls out, "Sharon, don't be afraid, I am with you. Trust my heart."

The book of Hebrews was written to frightened believers who were ready to give up. The writer uses every truth possible to encourage them to trust God with the unknown and in the last chapter he proclaims,

God Himself has said, 'I will not in any way fail you nor give you up nor leave you without support. I will not, I will not, I will not in any way or degree leave you helpless nor forsake you nor let you down, relax my hold on you. Assuredly not! (Hebrews 13:5, Amplified)

However you are spending Christmas, set aside time to reflect on this great gift of Christmas Presence. Ponder that first Christmas, the joy God experienced when He unveiled the fulfillment of His promise to Abraham, when He wrapped up His Son in the package of human flesh and delivered Him through the body of a young girl. And realize that He was thinking of how much you would need the reality of His Presence as you walked by faith in the Land of Grief. Give yourself permission to laugh, to share memories. Lean into the pain of grief and as you weep, listen for the whisper of God,

"My child, do not be afraid, I am with you."

We also encourage you to visit the website of Griefshare where you will find more articles on Surviving the Holidays. This is one of the best sites we have found for grieving families: http://www.griefshare.org/holidays/#articles

With much love to all,
Chuck and Sharon Betters

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