My husband is addicted to porn! How do I confront him?

In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "I have been married now for 6 years and I thought things were going pretty well, that is until the past 6 months or so. We seem to be spending less and less time together, actually, he seems to be too busy to spend time with me. I’ve noticed that he has been working late more and more and spending a lot of time on his phone and computer when he is home. It was really starting to bother me so that other day I went on his computer just to make sure he wasn’t doing anything “bad”, you know….but my worst nightmare came true...there it was, pages of pornography and chat room things, I don’t even know but the pictures alone were beyond disturbing. How do I confront him? Was I wrong to snoop around in his computer? I feel so betrayed and ugly...obviously I’m not enough. If we work through this, how will I ever know he’s actually only thinking of me?"