In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "There's someone from my past I want to let go of but can't. I've been praying to God for the past 3 years, asking He make me forget her and help me move on, but nothing has changed. The smallest things will trigger memories. I'll see her face in dreams, so clearly, like looking at a photograph. Is God telling me not to let go of her? Is it a demon distracting me? Am I just losing my mind? I've looked everywhere but can't find answers. I'm just so conflicted and don't know what to do."
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How do I know if I’m living like the “old me” instead of the “newness in life in Christ”? I find myself sinning almost daily. I dont want to do it anymore, yet this is the thousandth time I’ve said that probably. I am a hypocrite, but I dont want to be. I want to stop and im trying to stop yet I fall almost daily. Am I truly still not saved?
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Hi Dr. Betters, could you shine some light on the evolution of the institution of marriage? Polygamy was accepted in the old testament. I imagine that incest was too in the times of Adam and Eve since their family was the only one that existed, and had been commanded to be fruitful and multiply. None of this is acceptable to God anymore.
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In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "Hi Dr. Betters! I am a 24-year-old female and I have a question about marriage. I know that wives are supposed to submit themselves to their husbands. However, every female family member of mine (my mother, grandmother, aunts, etc.) submitted themselves to their husbands and ended up being abused and controlled by them. The idea of submitting myself underneath a future husband makes me feel so uncomfortable that I would rather live a life of singleness. However, I want to have children in the future. What should I do?"
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In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "What if you're a shy person and not versed in scripture, can't you lead by example?"
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In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "I'm standing here in my kitchen, listening to Dr. Betters, baking my son's 17th birthday cake. I'm reaching out in desperation, as the woman reaches for Jesus' hem. We've been to 11 counselors, pastoral and professional over the last 14 years. I know I am a sinner at heart, but I am seeking healing for my marriage, still. I've lived under emotional/verbal abuse for 26 years. I've tried to separate 3 times. My husband is a professing believer and, since middle school, has opened the door of technology and apps to our son (34 hours on Tik Tok over the last 10 days recently on just 1 app). What is a Christian wife to do when my husband devalues, minimizes, and outright blocks my attempts and wishes with boundaries when it comes to social media, music, and video games? I know the arm of the Lord is not short and is mighty in battle, but where is my line of obedience to God over man? How do I protect my son in this last year? Thank you for your time."
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In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, Kathleen asks, "What do you do if your spouse isn't religious?"
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In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, MJ asks "Can you please answer this question for me!? I am in my third marriage, my current husband and I have asked for forgiveness for adultery. We have been together for 20 years. Are we living in a state of perpetual sin and should we get divorced? Or does God forgive us? I was divorced for different reasons but not for acceptable reasons in the Bible. Does God forgive us? Should we stay married or get divorced? Thank you so very very much for answering this question in advance. God bless you!"
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In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, Bobby asks "What if the whole problem isn't me what if the whole problem is something somebody did to me to destroy my life and I prayed that God would stop them and he didn't and that's my whole problem and now I can't trust God because he broke my trust and my faith." In response to (How can I trust God when everything is being taken away?)
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In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "Hi Dr. Betters, God has guided me recently to your videos as He has other good ministries over the years and because of them I have grown spiritually and owe much thanks to Christian brothers and sister and their gifts of the Holy Spirit. I have two questions? Are sins of the mother or father carried on into next generations and if their could be much more immorality because of it AND do people especially Christians that treat another Christian brother or sister unfairly or even cruelly reap what they sow either now or in eternity IF not repented to God and ask forgiveness to the person that they have hurt or unfairly judged. ? Thank you I have been a born again Christian for 48:years there has been rocky roads along the way but with Gods help have kept the faith. God Bless and thank you, Joanne from Canada"
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In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, DayDay asks "I am 32 years old. I’ve been with my husband for 15 years. This year 2021 my husband unexpectedly passed away, on Valentine’s Day of all days, at 49 years old. We have three children ages 3,4 and 11. We have already been through so much in our lifetime (financially mentally and emotionally) and God took my husband from us, for what? What kind of God would want to see me and my children suffer? I don’t understand it, and I need answers. It’s not OK for God to leave me in this lifetime without answers and just think I’m supposed to forget about it when I die. Like I’m supposed to forget about it and my brain is supposed to be wiped clear and not have any questions. No it does not help me that people tell me that the heavens need him more because that’s not the case. We have a family together and I need him more. God has my husband for eternity. How could he need him more?"
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In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, Nathan asks "Hello, how can I save the person I married? I'm a man with faith which was one of the reasons why she married me. She comes from a family with no faith. My wife has become a very negative (evil) person who shows it to our children and I. Our 2 daughter's are 4yr and 11months old. My marriage is sacred and I will not give up on either my marriage or my wife because I know it is important to not just God but to me as well. I feel if I can save my wife then my kids can be saved as well but it scares me to know it can go both ways with the influence of the devil. I love your videos and they have helped me in so many ways but I could really use some prayers for my wife. I want her and others to be saved. Thank you for your service and any advice you can give."
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In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, Lilly asks "Hi, I have a question about forgiveness. Does the fact that I still feel hurt about something my late husband did and said mean I haven't really forgiven him? I am trying hard to let go of the hurt. I thought I had forgiven him but now I'm not sure."
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In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, Veena asks "How can I be happy in Paradise when I see my near and dear ones suffering in hell? Most of my relatives are Hindus. Will they all go to hell?"
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In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, “I have been in relationships for I know I need companionship but it’s not easy being single but how can I love someone who decides not to always be around. I don't want to be alone anymore it feels like I am dating me. I pray to God and all but I feel he been silent to me”
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In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "I'm a female and 80% content and happy about being single. Sometimes I get a strong feeling of wanting a spouse, but the feeling usually passes quickly. But I have such high standards for a man, that I cannot believe there is a man like that. It would take a true miracle of God to actually send me a man with all the values I want. Is it right or ok to ask God for a spouse with specific values, or are we supposed to be open and grateful for whatever He sends?"
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In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "Steven asks "I struggle with putting the pain behind me....how do I let go and how can I make myself open to new opportunities? Yes, there is prayer and connecting and strengthening my relationship with God. But the pain is really powerful. I pray to exhaustion and I still have the pain of my divorce. I never wanted my divorce...I only wanted my wife. Maybe it wasn't God's will for us to be married since my wife has no faith in Christ. I'm grateful that we never had children. I'm 39 years old...How do I trust again? How can I minimize my risk of divorce not happening again?"
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In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "How should a woman lead her family spiritually if her husband is not a believer?"
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